Do Kids with Autism Get Upset Easily?

August 7, 2025

Yes, many children with autism can get upset more easily than their neurotypical peers, but it’s not because they’re “difficult.” It’s often due to sensory sensitivities, communication struggles, or changes in routine that feel overwhelming.


A loud noise, bright light, or unexpected change can trigger stress. When a child can’t express their needs or emotions clearly, frustration builds up and that can lead to meltdowns or shutdowns. These reactions are not tantrums or misbehavior; they’re signs the child is overloaded or unable to cope in the moment.

The good news is that with the right support, children with autism can learn tools to manage their emotions. ABA therapy focuses on teaching emotional regulation, communication skills, and coping strategies in a calm, supportive way.


At Blue Jay ABA, we work with families to understand what upsets your child and how to help them handle it with confidence.


Want to help your child handle big emotions more easily?


Contact us today to learn how our personalized ABA therapy across North Carolina can make daily life smoother for your child and your family.


SOURCES:


https://childmind.org/article/is-my-childs-anger-normal/


https://www.webmd.com/brain/autism/understanding-autism-basics


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7855357/


https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour/anger-management/parents


https://raisingchildren.net.au/autism/behaviour/common-concerns/aggressive-behaviour-asd

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