Do Autistic Kids Love Their Mom?

August 20, 2025

Yes, autistic children absolutely love their moms (and caregivers), though the way they express it may look different from what people expect. Autism can affect communication and social interaction, so love and attachment may be shown in unique ways.

Some autistic kids may not say “I love you” often or may avoid physical affection like hugs, but they may show love through wanting to be near their mom, sharing favorite activities, or feeling most comfortable when she’s around. Others may express it by relying on their mom for support, seeking her out when upset, or showing excitement when she returns after being away.


It’s important to remember that differences in expression don’t mean a lack of bond. In fact, many autistic children are deeply attached to their parents, and their love is just as reality may simply be communicated through actions rather than words.


At Blue Jay ABA, we understand the powerful role family plays in a child’s development. Our ABA therapy in North Carolina supports not just the child, but the parent-child relationship, too.



Contact us today to learn how our ABA therapy services can help strengthen your family’s journey with autism.


SOURCES:


https://www.verywellmind.com/the-5-neurodivergent-love-languages-8682618


https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/autistic-child-favors-one-parent/


https://laconciergepsychologist.com/blog/strengths-struggles-autistic-parent/


https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/salute-mothers-children-autism


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10001708/


https://reframingautism.org.au/the-gift-of-unconditional-love/

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