Can Autistic People Care for Themselves? Understanding Independence in Autism

September 12, 2025

A common question parents ask is, “Can autistic people care for themselves?” The answer is: yes, many autistic individuals can learn to care for themselves, but the level of independence varies from person to person.


Autism is a spectrum, which means strengths and challenges look different for each individual. Some autistic people may need support with daily living skills such as cooking, grooming, managing money, or transportation, while others may perform these tasks independently. With the right supports and teaching strategies, skills like self-care, problem-solving, and decision-making can be developed over time.


ABA therapy plays an important role in building independence by breaking tasks into manageable steps, teaching them systematically, and reinforcing progress. For example, brushing teeth or preparing a simple meal can be taught step by step until mastered.


It’s also important to remember that independence does not always mean doing everything alone. For some, it may mean being able to make choices, communicate needs, and participate actively in their community.


At Blue Jay ABA, we empower children and families by teaching practical life skills that promote confidence and greater independence in the future.


Frequently Asked Questions

  • Can autistic people live independently?

    Many can, especially with early support and skill-building. Others may need varying levels of assistance.

  • What self-care skills can ABA therapy teach?

    Skills like hygiene, dressing, meal prep, and daily routines.

  • Does independence look the same for everyone with autism?

    No—each person’s path to independence is unique.

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